By Amberlynn Peckham
November 2016
Since I was asked to give info about little girl / Daddy Doms relationships, or little boy / Mommy Domme relationships, I thought, “Hey I can give it a shot; I have a bit of experience.”
So first thing: a little is a adult who has characteristics of a child this can range in age and severity (some people have more little characteristics then others). For me it’s a very natural thing, and not something I was trained to do.
There is another thing I will not be getting into really it’s called adult diaper-wearers. That’s not really anything to do with littles, even though some littles are younger than others; diaper wearers are more a fetish or considered age play. Something completely different than “littles”.
Littles are in nature curious individuals (this does not mean in any way that they are sexual individuals; some are not). Littles are also very mischievous. For example, let me think. I have tied daddy up when he was asleep because he wouldn’t give me attention, drawn on daddy with a sharpie when he was asleep, turned his shoe into a flower pot, replaced the shampoo in the bottle with toothpaste you get the picture. We do this not necessarily to be cute but as a form of communication.
Communication is very different with littles; we are all very unique and different. Some may be super sweet and nice, some may be bratty and like to play games, but we do have things in common. We can be super needy, we usually act on impulse instead of thinking things through. We can be more emotional than most people, more sensitive, and we can be just annoying at times.
Some other things that are not true about littles. is that many people believe is that littles don’t work and are looking for someone to take care of them. This is not true at all littles in a relationship are not are usually very productive members of society.
Things that littles look for in a relationship usually are
1. Safety -Make us feel safe well like a parent makes a child feel safe.
2. Attention -Pay attention to us for several reasons. Because we are needy, and we can have problems with communication skills
3. Patience, patience and yet even more patience. If you don’t have patience, then yeah we will drive you nuts and probably giggle while we are doing it thinking it’s a game.
Being a little really has nothing to do with sex. Just because someone is a little does not mean they are interested in sex; it also means that they might not be into other forms of BDSM.
Added personal note:
Yeah, I love my coloring books, love feeding the ducks at the park, playing on the swings, and lots of games. Most littles do this and don’t even know it’s a thing; it’s literally just what they like. Maybe years later, they may discover themselves as a little.
Amberlynn
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