Within the BDSM world, there
are many types of play. You may need to
sit down and think of things you never really considered, but would love to
try. One of my favorites is
knife play.
There are many types of ways
to include knives in playtime.
Always remember first and
foremost that BDSM has to be Safe, Sane and Consensual.
When playing with knives, it
is my choice to play it extra safe. I
take many precautions. What I like about
knife play is the psychological portion.
In this case, I am writing
about my way, my opinions. Yours and
others may differ.
A knife can cause shivers
when it is flipped open right in front of your sub, after he/she is tied up and
cannot move. It is something that can
cause a rush of adrenaline, just by the mere thought of what it might do.
You can place the knife in
ice for a moment, and it can give an amazing sensation to the sub when the tip
is run up and down their skin. When
running the tip on them, I suggest holding the knife blade up or sideways, to
avoid unwanted cuts. Lightly running it
over different and sensitive body parts can be a thrill. Just keep reminding your sub to not move,
they must trust you and not move at all.
Now if you are more
adventurous and want to try a rape scene for example; I suggest taping the
sharp blade edge with some duct tape. This
is to avoid an accident while moving fast or if the sub struggles or moves
suddenly. When doing something like
that, things can go wrong very fast if you do not take precautions. If you flash the knife in half-light, they
will not be able to tell there is duct tape on it. Trust me, I used pink Hello Kitty duct tape
on mine, and in the half-light, the sub is confused and doesn't notice the
tape. You can then either hold the dull
end to their throat (do not press, because you can damage the vocal
cords). Or you can run the tip along the
body, where you think would cause more shivers.
Remember, this is for psychological effect, not to cause real damage.
Always Please keep a phone nearby and a first aid kit in
case of an emergency. Knives are fun,
but can also cause unintended real harm.
Always negotiate things that will happen in a scene before you start,
NEVER surprise someone with a knife without discussing it before the scene.
Have fun, stay safe.
~Sam
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