I want to share this article, in my opinion, it's one of the best I have seen out there.
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Shared By David Coates in 2013
in BDSM support and Info
You do have rights, and you have the right to walk away. If you believe otherwise, it is time for a dip in the reality pool.
No man has an erection continuously, unless they are experiencing priapism, in which case, a doctor's visit is in order.
There is such a thing as premenstrual syndrome (PMS), and no amount of dominance is going to make it go away.
A chainsaw is not a sex toy.
Your cyber safe-word is the off button on the front of your computer. Use it!
There is going to be a time when you do not feel like having sex. It does happen, so prepare yourself mentally for it.
24/7 is not a myth. 24/7 in chains, naked and kneeling is.
There will come a time when you see your Dominant or sub scratching themselves, belching, and in need of a shower. Prepare yourself for that as well.
No one understands your collar but you. Showing it off at Wal-Mart is not exactly a statement.
The distance is not insurmountable, it is inconvenient and irritating, and it will grate on your nerves unless you fill your time with other things.
Eventually, you are going to have to take those cuffs off to take the kids to the doctor. Get used to it.
Speaking of doctors, tell yours what you are into currently, or possibly be prepared to deal with social services on a regular basis.
You really do not need another flogger. What you need is a new microwave and a pair of hundred-dollar tennis shoes for your teenager. Know when to say when to the toy bag.
People get sick. People die. Use a condom, please, unless you have been tested twice in the last year, and so has your partner.
Do not walk away from your friends. You might well need them later, when your dream Dominant turns into a frog, or your submissive into to a Decepticunt.
If you want something, ask. Ask respectfully, ask in role, ask in good faith, but ask. If you do not, chances are, you are not going get it.
Just because you call yourself a slave or Master does not mean that others will agree with your definition. Be prepared to defend your views, but do not bark at others for their opinions. They have a right to them, same as you do.
Find a way to orgasm without BDSM. You may need that someday.
There are things you will not do. Trust me. Maybe you just have not been asked to do them yet.
This is not always all about sex. Do not expect to get a nut every time you play, then you won't be disappointed when it happens to you. Orgasms are nice, but not mandatory.
Your Dominant is not clairvoyant.
Forever is not as long as you might think. Sometimes, it is just until she changes her mind again.
The Mistress is not always dressed in thigh-highs and hose. The Dominant does not always have his flogger nearby. Sometimes, it is time for sweat pants and hot cocoa.
An argument is not the end of the world. Not resolving it, however, might be.
Sometimes, a fuck is just a fuck, a beating is just a beating, and a kiss is just a kiss. Enjoy it, remember it, and move along.
I hope you have enjoyed your dip in the reality pool. Wipe your feet before going back in the house, and do not drip jism on my new wooden floors.
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